Paul Rubin, LMFT
Jungian-Oriented Psychotherapy
Berkeley, CA & Telehealth Across California
Paul Rubin, LMFT
Jungian-Oriented Psychotherapy
Berkeley, CA & Telehealth Across California
Depth-Oriented Therapy for Becoming More Fully Yourself
Depth-oriented therapy begins with the recognition that psychological life is layered and often shaped by patterns outside of immediate awareness.
Rather than moving quickly toward solutions, this work takes time to observe recurring themes, tensions, and images as they unfold. The aim is not to impose interpretation, but to cultivate understanding through careful attention.
Over time, this process can foster greater integration, psychological maturity, and a more grounded relationship to oneself.
My Approach
This work emphasizes depth and sustained reflection. It tends to resonate with adults and couples who are willing to examine recurring patterns, emotional tensions, and the ways relationships reflect inner life.
While many people seek therapy during periods of anxiety, grief, or transition, the focus here is not only on relief. It is on understanding what these experiences may be expressing and how they relate to your ongoing psychological development.
My stance is steady and collaborative. I do not assume I already know the meaning of your struggles. Instead, we approach them with curiosity and careful attention, allowing insight to emerge gradually over time.
Depth-oriented therapy can address immediate concerns, but it also holds the possibility of longer-term psychological development.
Some people come with a specific difficulty and work more briefly. Others choose to engage a deeper and more sustained process. In either case, the focus remains on understanding recurring patterns and fostering greater integration over time.
This work unfolds at its own pace. It is shaped by your circumstances, your questions, and your willingness to engage what emerges.
This work unfolds within a relationship grounded in steadiness and mutual curiosity. Rather than offering quick interpretations, we take time to examine what arises with care.
I do not assume the meaning of your experience. Instead, we explore it together, allowing understanding to develop gradually. A relationship built on trust and attention creates the conditions for meaningful change.
This work tends to resonate with adults, and with couples, who are willing to examine recurring patterns and engage their inner life with sustained attention. While individuals often encounter these patterns internally, couples may see them emerge between partners, where they can be explored thoughtfully rather than reactively.
If this approach resonates, the next step is an initial consultation. We can meet by phone, video, or in person in Berkeley to determine whether working together feels appropriate.
This first conversation allows us to consider what brings you to therapy and whether this form of work aligns with what you’re seeking.